I learn per food, per time. He has ...one of this mentality he does whatever he feels to do, so I never get the mood what he likes, or he says just that moment.

Meaning some guys also like to cook too ! 

Maybe that is true. That is his kitchen ~~~You need to clean each and every time, you know that. Including after the dinner time. The entire wash up. 

Being with a stranger, you mean....per day, per month, per yearly you learn.

But I say that before, I don't think you will carry any more of those relationship in your life. A healthy relationship anymore. You have a job to attend to, not the relationship.