Every girl in their middle school, fall in love, or the high school the first love.

That is a break up with someone. Like a girl learns they want to control that someone's life very early on, the first relationship, the first crash on, the first love, the first kiss, the first sex love, or the first marriage life with or without the kids. The first divorce. 

So, if you go out more on your dating history, you don't see that as the middle school crash on, or the first love at sight in the high school. 

The first stage in life, the second stage in life. If just a kiss, someone doesn't.....

Or you all have to ball room dance, someone holding another person's hand....and those high school calling each other's name, those. No.

If Shane or nick got married again? Me thinking?

The age, where you cannot have every 10 years to re-done all that, I used to thought about all that, and I learn about that. You don't expect someone has another 10 years, you really really believe that, and saying the argument to fight, or to leave. Meaning ....if you really love that someone, and it was already over, or too many things happened, you would say nick that was another 10 years, literally he kills himself.....or that was the life routine we both put that through. With other people's more kids, many people believing in those life. I didn't need to insist that life, but he can choose to believe he got another 20 years for that kind of the set-up and I want nothing to do with it.

You always plan that 10 years, not 20 years, someone old, like forever?

No! Definitely not like that. Of course not. But I was so young, and to one point, I thought about my life doesn't have an exit yet, I had a facebook, and then he has to get old, my mother has to get old for her 2 kids. The small family, I didn't need to go out of the world for anything. So those thinking I always be more equip, because our gap years so great. He will never have another 40 years to plan, you say 5 to 10 years....there is a certain langauge, I was younger, and he was already too old that time.

Do they talk to Will those language?

No, of course not. 

Those older women or the younger girls?

If he asked something, probably. Probably not the young girls. 

Do you ever talk to Westlife anyone like that? Like any philosophical reason, or getting together, there are 4 of them, those chat, and what do you talk about...like to attract the guy to your points, or get into the relationship those....these kinds of the talk?

They.....their kinds probably have never getting married, to say the business, or all around, or the back-up singer, if were Shane, or anything disastrously in front of the people's face. 

Sometimes, you have more diginity.

Sometimes, you had more solid foot on the ground. And sometimes, between you and the guys, you know a little bit about the life in front of yours and theirs. Its 2 people planning in that life. What's important, all that.

So you never talk about those to any guys, trying to get your points?

You cannot speak in English to social in England, that will never be an issue, because you cannot understand them or speaking to them. 

Sometimes being with a guy, you meant that is a right thing for him, or for me. Not because we break up, we go and destroy on purpose on another life the 2 separate worlds.

So in your Upper England world, where you used to roaming at, not you socialize with the dignity, you always want to grab the things to your most immediate attention. Some guys or some man, they know that is what you mean, when you saying that, or verbalize that expression. 

Is that good or bad?

You probably meant those more experience guys in their life, having a marriage life before or having some other family background before they arrive to there the social venue. You are not going to join them in there anymore, so those burden where you present yourself, is no longer an issue, and you never successfully to maneuver a conversation dialogue. 

Isn't everyone wants to be successfully to grab someone in front of their immediate eyes?

No.

How do you say that? For example.

Like someone looks like Shane when he is 65 or 70? You just said, .....something something and then in those conversation in the middle of that, "You don't have another 10 years for another we get together. The life isn't built on a romance, you say you literally believing in it to go with a younger girl, and what she gonna do when you break up, all that....and you die, she dies? "

But if you determine to expose to that one older gentleman something in this context, you are ready for him to ask you something else. How do you even know that.... in that original world where you were, I will tell you, some of them,

there might be those whom knew those conversation or gone far, except being with a younger girl as literal sense, probably meaning to hurt anybody else on purpose or on intended. Not as smooth as you believing in all that.

Many guys they can go to e-harmony, to chat 100 participants, and everyone will talk about, if one of them owning a villa in Europe, or a house in London. What you gonna do?

Every women got married and said, they have an existing home, she is a home owner, or 5 women on his one profile photo, that is 5 existing houses, the home owner in London. So that decision making, when to visit these e-harmony idea, you realize....its the home owner, with or without the debts all that saying, living in London the local residents, What you gonna do?

Those are the upper world man does that, not Will. You don't have to react on that. 

And then....

They got married, the kids grown up. They know how to cook, or they know where to social dining in London. You imagine everyone can live in London, or the business, or the clubbing, or the Happy New Year, the fire works, Westlife gone to were Dublin. 

When they are 50 or 60 years old, that is all their langauge will become like that.

Whom will carry that kinds of the conversation?

It will never be Meet Joe Black?

Normally, they talk different.  They look, they posture different, or they professional different. Their overall presentation or the voice, or the gesture, or the literacy when they forward that.

They look.....have been through some life experience. Taking care of a house, having some kids around, the SUV drive to Costco, the ordering lists, or the Amazon shipping, or the mail packaging, like...getting a mail, getting a gift box culture, or some confident built in those conversation carries.

The student formats are long gone, by far ......you can tell, some probably will never get married, and you know, those shape up life before 40 years old, that kinds. Those people also get old, but they will not join those important venue for something where the Upper they meet the people, to get married, or to get around, all that.

I think that movie ....

Its sister's husband, looks like Nick when he just had Mimmo, most bold and the black hair. I met him when he was the silver grey hair. That kind of the man, he won't hurt the sister, and he just besides, and the father knows whom he is.

You think the movie talks like that?

He knows the sister's routine, he knows the father, he knows where is the kitchen, he knows the sister's grocery store refrigerator list. "Your sister used to do this...." - it makes her felt comfort? 

"No, your sister used to have this made at the near by taylor, or the shop next block street."

"No, your sister used to put this recipe at those boxes somewhere...."

"No, your sister won't say that, that is not how she will say that, of course not."

"No, your sister doesn't do that with your father, not like that."

"No, the car, we used to....I park and she walks there, we talk about it."

( Mad )

Maybe you just rest until you get to Christmas dinner, or Japan. What this Harry up to, and you all just scatter for the holiday seasons.

Does the man knows that is what she wants to hear?

Yes.

Which man will know those skunt bags they talking like that to the girl?

Your mother, or your sister, both. Some man knows those are the langauge. Its in the family.

You want to bet, call the Presidents? 

No, of course not. You should not tell Will those things neither. He never hears about this, he never learns this kinds of the conversation. 

That kind of the man doesn't do rough things to the sister or the younger sister in the MD field. Meaning, he ensures when she gets home, there are the food on the table, cook, warm, and she takes a shower. He ensures the toilet paper from the Costco are stock up. The same routine with her sister before. And she MD doesn't go all over the place to make her father eye strain what she does or will ever do. Change the light bulb, ordering the fridge when she gets home and pick up and install there with the workers. The MD sister still capable to carry some home routine.

Rough things, do you mean sex? (so angry mad)

They can talk about it ! More open behind, those language.  Like if that one night, she opens the door, she says she just arrived home and the fridge just install, "We had a busy day." She doesn't care about, whom are you, she cares about it? The home was in an order, and the man behind says, "Whom is it? "  She felt safe?

Like a kiss, the breath, the mirror going out, the nose inside hanging things. She can just ask him before she goes out the big meeting, he talks mild, he has a way to talk, she felt comfortable? The way how he talks to the MD sister, and how he holds her waist to forward to the next room. He is not going to beat her out of the space....he married to the sister.

So you would go with Nicky, because HE IS NOT A ROUGH MAN THAN SHANE?

uh ....you never met some girls they married to a different country guy, and whom they are with. Some girls or the women learn in a different stage in life. Be at home, someone be inside the house waiting a kitchen counter top to arrive.

You will evaluate a guy base on all that ...you say?

I am not looking for a guy, but I am just saying these movies mean.

That kind of the man knows what the sister and the MD younger sister, when their mood is down, when they are hungry, tired, nagging, sleepy, headache. So when he talks to the younger MD sister, he knows all of that already. She brings the money home, and secure the mortgage, or the father, or the situation, and she process the billing on the table, or file-ing, that is the only thing she is good at. That man knows that.

So he can do anything else she is not good at it, stock up the SUV with the napkin, the tissue box, the dollar store happy birthday plates for the kids, or the cousin's kids. Her temper goes up when the things don't run smooth, so he knows that, he knows that, he knows that !!!!

You will pick a man because he will DO ALL THAT?

I am just saying....there is a family business near by, around that, the social degree or the social ladder. And you are a girl, a lady......these are the type of the man, when he coming towards the social dance floor, if he comes near, he doesn't make a huge noise, he holds your shoulder "move that way", or cuddle your waist line move it to the dance floor, and lead to your husband, that kinds....you know how to do that as the man, or he is the man knows how to do just all that?

By how? Practice on 50 other women? He knows how to brings a lady to the dance floor to the husband, or the ex husband all that? He is not exaggerating, to make you feel embarrassed IN THE ENVIRONMENT. 

YOU KNEW THAT BY EXPERIENCE, OR THAT IS WHAT EVERYONE ELSE DOES?

He talks about it? Why are you so work up for this? He knows those field, the women background. He does nothing but those social occasion before, we talk about it.  We have those neighbors, or someone in the center. The people getting married to move out of the country, he getting those, too. 

So if you all live for eternity, and Shane isn't there, you will go with his best friend? ALL THAT because someone knows the house, someone knows the routine? 

Maybe.....not everyone in a hurry to get married, until I get there. Sometimes there is an emergency reason, some of the story, you thought about what the emergency reason, a guy and a girl, even in that social sense, you don't exaggerating yourself. It might be just a kiss, you make a such of the big deal ! 

A waist hold on the dance floor, or someone presenting someone, a hand hold, you mean those are a super giant big deal. That is another guy, you are comfortable, someone introducing someone's hand shake, someone you knew, that is not a super big deal. Be polite, be courtesy, not .....swing them out of the sight, or at their jaws, those?

They are the entertainment guy, and for half of the day, sometimes for a certain thing is not a super giant deal !

You will do behind their best friend?

NO!! A certain thing, NO! Of course not. 

If a man brings his wife ....that is not your best friend. Is that an argument?

Are you guys doing something inside that movies? 

I am watching the movie.