Unless we talk about some senior officers, they are the single person and they retired.

They have a home, and let's say in UB, there were some girls gear toward them.

But they need to keep a job, or keep a resume, so if they be with a senior guy, they don't feel their life in the future secured. They were not like me. Right, if you don't have any money, in the end, the older guys can just throw you outside, you get nothing. You didn't get the love, or you didn't stay with him long enough.

I think there is a niche, but you need to make it when you live with him. For example, you are both live in America, so whichever this senior officer would be, you need to be in the local to find a job, or somewhat knowing you also required to keep some money flows. That is the best I believe.

Or you are the stabilized girl with the family money secured, its again, a lot of the cooking and the house chore you be with a guy, you like that person so you stay close.

1) You smile all the time 2) Be cheerful in life.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7OIt3-QW1tw

These scenario of how you get into a guy's world desk, or the officers are rare. But let's say someone they got clustered in a close compartment, and that compartment its just you happened to be near some guys, you have no idea whom they are....kinda of like I just jumping around my facebook that time in UB. 

You have these cups you see I hold in my hands, or you brainstorm anything, you input that your spoken language in English, they might be the song writer, and you capable to make the pizza, you eat your own pizza you make, or you bring that to the photo people's see.

Just people wishing you happy, and just be happy, you don't need to always to imagine I gonna be with a guy, or not being with a guy, just be happy and wishing them be happy. You know what I mean?

A lot of the guys happy people just be happy.

oh ~ if the guys see worse, if those the food made right in front of their eyes?

But you need to have your career and the money made into that life trajectory. I seeing some chef, you can just hire a chef, and they do everything right to create a lot of the food for the party people.